Wonder Years is Back

Just came back from office and turned on the television. While jumping from one channel to another I heard the theme song of wonder years on Zee Cafe. I stoped and was really happy to see that Wonder Years is starting on television again on Zee Cafe and will be coming every Monday at 6 PM.

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NO MORE SMOKING MY LIFE - Before addiction

A major turn came in my life after I recently developed addiction for smoking. So I need to explain it in a bit more detail, so I thought of posting about it in parts and make it a series.

The first part explains about my point of view towards smoking and smokers before I started smoking.

No one in my family had ever smoked at least since I am seeing them around. It was quite obvious to develop a taboo image about smoking habits based on the family environment. When I was a kid my father used to tell me that when he was a kid and when he asked his dad for a beedi (tobacco rolled in a tobacco leaf, a kind of cigarette) how his dad beat him for that.

With the time I started to learn more about bad effects of smoking and developed even more clear picture about smoking in my mind. More over than just this, smoking seemed to me like a “slow suicide”, committing a suicide is considered as crime in law but this slow suicide is not. Well precisely slow killing is supposed to be a crime but then smoking is an exception.

I guess now it must would have got a bit clear, how much I used to hate smoking.

When I was in 10th standard one of my friend tried making me smoke and told me, one should try everything in his life, at least once. It made quite a sense to me but I was scared of pain in throat I might feel for the first time after smoking. So he told me to just take the smoke in my mouth and release it. I did that, well there was nothing great about it as I wasn’t taking any smoke inside. He asked me to try taking it inside but I refused. Later may be after several weeks I took one cigarette once again but dint take any smoke inside again, so I couldn’t find any fun in doing that so never tried it again. Even being the fact how much I hated smoking the only and the only reason for trying smoking were his words that one should try everything at least once in life.

That was then but now I know that there is no point trying something just for the sake, that others are doing it too.

As far as smokers are concerned, if I was traveling in a three wheeler (a major mode of public commute in Delhi) and if the driver would start smoking then I would ask him throw it away or else I would get down. And not just that I would at least ask the driver a few things like if he is married, if he has any kids and finally tell him to quit smoking. I did used to get very strange response from them but it really dint matter to me anyways.

While in social circle I never used to mind turning my face on other side, taking a step away and sometimes even go away if a person with me would start smoking. I think the reason for this was the mental block I developed within myself about passive smoking and may be the disliking for smoking was getting turned into disliking for smokers as well.

I still remember the evening when I was traveling in a bus and passing by my first company I ever worked with, I saw a very old friend of mine standing in front of the office and in some time I noticed her holding a cigarette burning in her hand and then in a few seconds smoking from it. At first I was shocked and then in next few minutes I changed my point of view for her from a sweet, decent, friendly girl to a BLANK PAGE, I dint know what should I think about it, I never ever thought I would see her like that. We were childhood friends and I had the same impression of the same old friend I had years ago as after we moved to a new house we never met each other again.

The questions that came into my mind was, can anyone get changed so much over a period of time and under any circumstances.

One day I was with a friend of mine sitting at Basant Lok Complex (One of the most high class hang out places in Delhi) out side “Passion My Cup of Tea”, sipping our tea and just opposite to it there is a disco called RPM. There were several girls coming out of the disc and several of them going inside. Most of the girls we could see there were smoking. I asked my friend that what do these girls get out of smoking, then she replied, most of them are not even smoking, if you see carefully then they don’t inhale any smoke and just throw it away as soon as they take it in there mouth.

After that I noticed those girls and I was surprised to see what she said was absolutely correct. Now it was quite clear that its not just the addiction of smoking but addiction for looking cool and addiction for looking part of high class that is adding to the numbers or smoking addicts every day. In fact I guess that the most biggest reason for teenagers getting addicted to smoking is that they find other teenagers who smoke very COOL and tries to become like them!!

Note: I wanted to add few pictures but I am not adding them due to the fact that this page may be accessed by non smokers and in any way I don’t want to promote smoking.

This post is tagged based on the tags for entire series, so few tags may not be relevant for this post.

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My Treasure

I am really glad that I am sharing this with you. From several years I have a hobby or a habit you may say of collecting bills. My friends have always asked me this and even at times made fun of it by saying what are you going to do with these bills, if tomorrow we fight then will you ask for our share and I always used to smile at it.

I developed this habit when I dint had any camera of my own and always wanted to treasure the happy moments spend with my friends and those who I loved. So I thought that I sud start collecting bills when ever I will spend some time with my friends, well bills are something that you can get even at places where you cannot take a camera along, like in movie halls.

May it be movies, having dinner, travelling, gifts or anything, it was a habit now. I always enjoyed it. Initially I started with a small diary in which I used to keep these bills but over a period of time I had to move them to a bigger place.

It even has my first wallet that I ever had.

So now I am really glad to have this treasure of mine that might not cost anything to others but is priceless for me.

All my memories with those who are still with me and for those who had to part their ways all I want to say is I will always remember them.

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Battle against me

Few of the most dangerous enemies of humans are anger, anxiety, expectations and curiosity. It is very important for us to get hold of them before they start controlling us.

Anger or frustration are result of access availability of energy within us. When we are not utilizing our energy efficiently it has to come out in one form or another. Anger tends to be the most easiest way of releasing energy hence we usually get rid of excess energy through anger.

As it is really hard to fully utilize our energy all the times, hence most of the times we end up getting angry or frustrated about things around. Another way of controlling the energy level within us is to reduce the level of energy.

To bring down energy level in me or in a way to punish myself for choosing a way that is destructive for me myself and for others around I had decided to fast and stay hungry every time I will get angry or get frustrated. It might not be a correct way to handle this but something needs to be done in order to control to avoid any problems in future.

And I believe that by doing this, it will remind me of staying hungry and thirsty every time I will get angry or frustrated about anything.

While I am writing this post I have already been hungry and thirsty for more than 18 hours and it may continue up to 24 hours. My definition of fasting is not that you don’t eat any food but eat all the fruits and drink lot of health drinks. When I am fasting then I am really fasting, nothing to eat, nothing to drink.

I hope that soon I will be able to come up with some other ways to handle other most biggest enemies of mine and of the human kind.

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Clear past == Clear future

While in my last company a colleague of mine told me about this TV series called Wonder Years which used to come on national TV long time ago. I thought I could get a copy for her and she would like to see it. Finally I arranged a copy of it but unfortunately I am still not able to give it to her. But now as I already have it I thought of watching it.

I have seen the entire first season of it and I am really finding it good. This TV series talks in depth about teenage life the question one can have and how things move around in a child’s life. Feelings and situations are presented very beautifully. I really wonder if I would have seen this program when I was a child, things would have really been different for me.

The question I am grown up with and the ones that still haunts me are actually faced by Kevin the main character of the program. I am really amazed to see the overview perspective of a child’s life. Now I heartily regret why didn’t see this program when I was a kid.

In my childhood I used to see many things around, say for an instance like so many breakups between my class mates and I used to think that don’t these guys have any true feelings for any one. But now I know what all things one has to go through.

Its not just about my childhood but the problems I used to face which were being left unsolved have got carried forward. Quite sure I am that this program is gonna make hell lot of things clear to me like why did they happen at all at the first place and what I could have done to avoid them. Obviously now when I will have a clearer picture of my past, I shall be able to construct a more better road for my future.

Thanks to my colleague without whom I would have never know about this fabulous TV program. Thanks a lot to her…

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